“We handle a lot… we take care of our men, we handle our jobs, we do all kind of craziness to make sure the household is stable. And then, we don’t get enough credit for it! That’s the only thing I be worried about.”
Early this morning… Keyshia Cole took it back to Twitter to let it be known that she wasn’t only speaking for herself when she put Wanda Smith in check. Ms. Rick James was speaking for all Women who she says, “don’t get enough credit.” Don’t believe me.. Just ask Sabrina Rojas Weiss — who was previously mistaken for Keyshia serving up a professional.
You’ll recall Keyshia’s over-the-phone interview with ATL’s V-103 led the singer to lash out at Wanda Smith, after the radio personality questioned whether or not she’s “wifey material.” This, after Ryan Cameron brought the Boobie questions to the table… asking if Keyshia’s “Rick James” lyrics could have been inspired by the pair’s break-up.
“Dudes do what they do. I really don’t feel like there’s no dude out that’s gonna keep it 100. That’s just what I see… period.”
Here’s how it all went down:
Ryan Cameron: “What went wrong? Ya’ll was just here together you know what I’m talking about… you know I’m gonna ask the real questions. I thought ya’ll was forever.”
Keyshia Cole: “Some things don’t last forever…We definitely are co-parenting right now. He’s a great father, and I want to stress that issue because there’s a lot of guys out there that don’t take care of their children after the relationship don’t work. He’s been there for DJ and he makes sure DJ is well taken care of… not just financially, he comes everyday to pick DJ up and take him to school… and I pick him up from school because my hours is late right now. You know what I’m sayin’… so we good, we workin’ it out, we straight.”
Ryan Cameron: “You don’t sound straight, you sound politically correct…”
Keyshia Cole: “I know, I know. But it’s not easy to deal with at all. I don’t know what it was, but I know that my intentions was good. I’m sure his intentions was good. I’m thankful that we were able to have my child. So I can’t necessarily say that we rushed into anything because God gives you what he gives you. So for me and him to have been able to have a child is a blessing. That doesn’t necessarily mean that we have to stay together to make sure that my son is raised properly.”
That’s when Wanda stepped in, asking Keyshia: “Do you feel like you’re wifey material?” …and Keyshia Got Real With It, Son! “You know what… ya’ll really fukkin with my sh*t right now… I got some other sh*t going on… what cha’ll wanna talk about?
Wanda Smith: “I’m sayin’ because you’re so busy and your had a lot going on…”
Keyshia Cole: “What you mean?”
Wanda Smith: “Because you were so busy…you had your career poppin’ off and you had to kind of phase out and start to do the wifey thing… the cooking… taking care of the kids… were you really ready for that or were you still you know, trying to do your music thing?”
Keyshia Cole: “Are you trying to insinuate that I was one-dimensional?!”
Wanda Smith: “…Like with Monica, for instance…”
Keyshia Cole: “Listen… listen… Monica is I’m sure doing her thing. This ain’t the first the rodeo for Monica. She been through the wringer… this, that and the other.. But at the end of the day we can handle ALL that… it’s the point of the man takin’ care of his business. Straight up on that. You know what I’m saying, we good… we handle our sh*t, we good, we do what we do… period…. Now I’m ready to smack a b*tch… they don’t give enough credit.”
Go Keysh! But I blame society–as a whole–for shit like this. We are basically forced to get married and have children, and if we don’t, folks look at us and whisper about us like we’re crazy, unwanted, etc. We are told from childhood as women that our main purposes are marriage and motherhood. What happens though, when marriage doesn’t work out? Are we a societal failure? Have we failed as woman? This shit is crazy. Marriages and relationships are ending ledt and right. WHY???
“Marriages and relationships are ending ledt and right. WHY???”
because today’s society got everybody GASSED.
this internet shit got everyone thinking that they can find replacements for ANYBODY; ASAP.
LOYALTY and COMMITMENT died when HIP-HOP died…straight up.
if you’re out there looking for love and shit these days, be careful…because shit just got REAL.
American marriage is a fraud and a business because you’re asked to purchase a certificate.But,marriage of the bible is Sex,so something doesn’t add up.I’ll continue to live within the Laws,Statutes,and commandments of the bible and believe less of what this Yt society has to offer.
Thank you, Alexis. And we don’t get enough credit as women for our contributions. If I knew a man who is as strong as I am, I’d marry him. Lol. Until then, I am my man.
I am glad keisha put that fugly biatch in check…”were you ready for marriage” bitch gthoh Insensitive bitch!
Go Keysh! But I blame society–as a whole–for shit like this. We are basically forced to get married and have children, and if we don’t, folks look at us and whisper about us like we’re crazy, unwanted, etc. We are told from childhood as women that our main purposes are marriage and motherhood. What happens though, when marriage doesn’t work out? Are we a societal failure? Have we failed as woman? This shit is crazy. Marriages and relationships are ending LEFT* and right. WHY???
Off topic… I like to come to this site, but the refreshing is more than annoying and the music playing loud up above… please change it! Thanks!
Amen K…It’s really bothersome and hitting mute don’t help!
Turn the volume down on your monitor and that’ll fix the music; HSK should address the refresh thingamajig…it’s annoying as hell.
Get adblock.. in the voice of Jamie Fox, block that shit outttt
This new style is parenting is what’s causing the rift between couples and how individuals are viewed. 50 years ago you would never hear a sister marginally-subtlely bashing another sister. It’s this mess of ‘modern age thinking’ of how to be a parent, be in a relationship, and other factors that’s clouded our minds and changed how we view ourselves and other people.
Sorry to say but this style of parenting is not so new. It’s been going on for the past 30 years. This Wanda character got what she deserved. How the hell you gonna ask somebody if they’re cut out to be a “wifey.” WTF? The woman is married. Period. She’s ignorant and was definitely being disrespectful by signifying Keishia I not marriage material.
Mof*ck wanda smith. I don’t like that ignut, walrus lookin, pearl the whale lookin, hippo hipped, porky pig smelling cunt.
Thanks Keisha.
Ryan need to get Wanda outta there, first of all. I know Keyshia can have attitude, but asking someone “do u think u were wifey material”, that was too much. she wasn’t a wife she was and still is a wife. that wasn’t cool.
Go Keisha, kept it real. A lot of women (mind you I didn’t say most) want the husband, kids and career. But, you have to keep it balance. Unfortunately for women the career is the first to go. I just hope Keisha don’t stay jaded on men.
Did you say jaded? I hope he does not feel jaded. Reality tv ruined her family and career. Letting the cameras in your home only workouts for those who have no career to begin with, but for those who have careers kiss them goodbye. Marriage is sacred, value your wife, husband and, privacy.
She needs to stop doing interviews until she hires a PR rep to help her! Yes Wanda was wrong to ask her if she was wifey material.It implies that a woman can’t be a wife, mother , and have a career which is wrong! Keisha needs to learn to express herself without cussing in interviews.It makes her look bad. You can check a person without doing all that! Keep it smooth..check..and move on..next question!
I agree with you. Her cussing everybody out is ignorant and makes HER look bad.
She’s been in the game long enough by now to know how to deflect and check a person without all that.
Wanda’s question was out of order but she was doing what the media does…push buttons to garner higher ratings.
I am surprise that I have not heard an outcry from this point of view.
Is Wanda Smith saying that she can not hold a career, be a mom and a woman to her man?
Then why is Wanda Smith working?
“I just hope Keisha don’t stay jaded on men”
she mine as well.
ain’t nuttin’ out there stopping ANYBODY from lying and cheating…and in that case, fame and fortune ain’t even stopping the cheating…so it’s basically a wrap.
most chics ain’t gonna get (and KEEP) the fairy tale…it just ain’t gonna happen…ESPECIALLY in this day and age.
and chics are starting to wild OUT as a result.
it’s a hot fukcin’ MESS out.
A woman becomes married after a act of Sex and according to the Bible a woman was destined to have only one man her entire life unless the man whom took her virginity perishes.Than she becomes free of the Law. If a woman has had more than one partner that makes her a adulterer and according to the bible,that’s punishable by death.Multiple partners means multiple husbands which is a absolute no no.
You’re right BA.
But also remember that the Lord said he “hates divorce” but knowing the sinful nature of man, allowed for it in the case of adultery/sexual sin.
Matthew 5:31-32
“And it was said, ‘Whoever sends his wife away, let him give her a certificate of divorce’; but I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except for the cause of unchastity, makes her commit adultery; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
I like Keyshia Cole, but she is a modern day ministrel character who willing sold her entire family for attention, ratings, and profit Black Men should run from disfuntional women of this sort not marry and have kids with them, that justifies there behavior
And Black women need to stay away from “thugs,” “goons,” “goblins” and niggas who cannot spell and/or are inexplicably ignorant.
Hey, Bella, I can spell, but I wrote my piece opinion in haste, nice try, but I will continue to speak the truth, have a great day and night
Hey, Bella, I can spell, I wrote my opinion piece in haste, but I will continue to speak the truth whether I misspell words or leave them out, but the underline message is still firm and can be understood even by an idiot
Your message was understood by an idiot, considering an idiot wrote it.
your comments won’t stop me, so stop responding
I agree with Keyshia and alot if these comments. I do not want any kids but I do hope to marry. It makes me mad when dumb ass women ask why I do not want kids. It goes to show some women only feel worthy if they are fulfilling a man needs. Lol society has f*cked up alot of heads.
“It makes me mad when dumb ass women ask why I do not want kids. It goes to show some women only feel worthy if they are fulfilling a man needs.”
no…not really…it goes to show that they are more in-tune with their bodies and biological clocks than you are.
@FyLe… you must missed where I said I DO NOT WANT KIDS. If thatoffends any woman with kids then it just means she really didn’t want children.
So’laced feel empowered by your choice girl! You have a right to choose whether or not you will bring children into this world. No one has the right to question your judgement, I have no desire to have children either until I’m in my forties and even then, I might adopt. There is no shame in it. The main people giving you the side-eye will be twice/ or 3x baby mamas with no husband in sight. Stand in POWER in your decision.
@Goddesses Thanks!!! I needed that because I just dont want any kids and its a shame women think thats all they were made for. Hsve the guys who apply pressure to have babies dont even take care of their own and then these women as you said are just babymamas. I agree!
…maybe you should peep out the Kevin Hart movie “35 & TICKING”
You must be a man who wants to be a woman or either a woman who has too many damn children already….either way make your peace with it. Every woman has a right to choose whether she wants children or not, regardless of her biological clock.
A serious question to those who call themselves Christians or use the bible as their guide and are black. Why wouldn’t you follow Egyptian culture/religion which predates not only the bible but many other civilations? Especially when the bible as well as other civilizations have copied aspects of Egyptian culture and tried to pass them off as their own? I don’t see many native Americans trying to assimilate or claiming the white man’s religion, but black people all day every day. But maybe the answer to that is there are not many native Americans left.
Why would anyone want to follow a religion based on race or cultural differences? The bible says,
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16. That’s enough for me.
God is no respecter of person. I do not follow religion at all. However, I am a non-denominational Christian who follows Jesus Christ. I am not perfect, but I do know my relationship with him has changed my life.
If you want to look at it from a science point of view, everyone’s from Africa, so technically we’re all africans. Turn off the history channel sometimes and pick up the bible. It does the mind and body good;)
+1.
* “No respecter of person”.
“Why wouldn’t you follow Egyptian culture/religion which predates not only the bible but many other civilations?”
because niggaz LOVE ‘dem some WHITE Jesus.
simple.
Your thoughts are so black in white you probably can’t even see in color. “Hair like lambs wool” and “bronze skin”. If that sounds white to you, please enroll in an art class. Mr or Ms 1940. Lol
thank you fyle formats I guess it is that simple. The only thing still not answered is why follow and literally believe something that was forced upon different cultures & ethnicities ‘to be civilized” ? Last time I checked the native Americans were doing just fine before “civilization” so were Africans. I guess brainwashing is for real when facts show that Christianity is just a hodge podge of much older religious/cultural practices belonging to other peoples mixed in w/ parables and classic literature.
sure.
that might be what the book says…yup…but that ain’t what EVERY DAMN PICTURE looks like in prolly like 99% of the churches.
don’t play yourself.
half ya’ll niggaz got a WHITE JESUS on your living room / dining room wall RIGHT NOW.
Don’t got a white Jesus pic but my boo is white. Yes he is!
yup…guess you got the next best thing…prince charming.
He’ll still call you a Ni##er once you make him mad over behind your back to his white friends.Enjoy being a bedwench.FOH
Just because you have hatred in your heart doesn’t mean we all should follow your lead. Love sees no color. Last I checked, we are to love one another, whether or not we like each other.
You go out of your way to disrespect people with a difference of lifestyles or opinions like your word is law/the absolute truth. I pray for your evolution.
Your statement is Marlarky because if you read Gen 26th chapter we were never suppose to come together with whites because we were separated by the bowls.The bible says show my people they’re transgressions and I’m going to do just that.
Moses was married to a cushite(Ethiopian woman)numb 12:1
No intermarrying with unbelievers.
Enjoy your man and your life. Much happiness to both of you.
If you have reservations about me standing up for the most high and keeping his laws,that make you a AntiChrist.The most high hates Race mixing duet 7:3.He also hates the whiteman.(Jacob I Have Loved But Esau I Have Hated)
That’s Old testament, Black, . New testament , Apostle Paul said to either not marry or if one cannot control their lust, marry one man to one woman. And to not marry unbelievers as they will hold you back. As far as “race”, as it exists today, is mostly a political ans mental construct. Phenotype can be very deceiving. I agree that hispanics, native Americans and American blacks that arrived here via the slave trade likely could be of the blessed chosen bloodlines. And they will make the rapture. But John the Baptist was very clear in revelation that what he saw after the tribulations was an uncountable number of saved survivors from All nations. IJS. It does no one any good to only focus on certain parts of the bible. We must study it all. God is no racist. He destroys nations for their sins, not skin color
I hope u feel the same about black men and yt women@bella
Do u hold him to the same standards as blk suitors? Or is being yt enuf? Coon
Moses was married to a cushite(Ethiopian woman)numb 12:1
No intermarrying with unbelievers.
Moses married a Ethiopian with opposition from his brother Aaron as well as his sister Marian who were Hebrews and knew it was prohibited for us to marry the other nations.
Watch who you call, “niggaz” , you evil white troll
If my post don’t mention@Bella than don’t respond because perhaps I was not talking to you.I’ve learned that the Truth Hurts And Its Sharper Than A Sword.
Moses was married to a cushite(Ethiopian woman)numb 12:1
No intermarrying with unbelievers.
The different tribes were praying to idols and believing in other Gods. That is why they were forbidden to intermarry, It was to keep them from falling.
In the book of King Solomon did just that. He had a harem of women from different tribes, which eventually led him to pray to idols and serve other Gods. The end result, he lost everything.
The different tribes were praying to idols and believing in other Gods. That is why they were forbidden to intermarry, It was to keep them from falling.
In the book of King Solomon did just that. He had a harem of women from different tribes, which eventually led him to pray to idols and serve other Gods. The end result, he lost everything.
Yes and interestingly enough the love of his life was a dark skinned queen, dark as the tents of Kedar (purplish black), according to the Song of Solomon.