Kandi Burruss Demands Couples Therapy With Todd Tucker

Kandi Todd Couples Therapy

When Real Housewives of Atlanta cast member, Kandi Burruss, asked her husband Todd Tucker for more sex. He told her “You’re not Rihanna.”

Here’s what Kandi Burruss said why the couple needs therapy:

“My main thing is not enough sex. Can we have sex more than once a week.”

158 COMMENTS

  1. Probably one of the reasons why she was near 40 with a preteen before becoming a wife. Life is too short to be pummeled EVERY night. She should consider herself luck, But this stuff is private unless she is sharing this info to generate ratings/revenue.

    • #1 IF HE IS SO PRIVATE, WHY DA FUK WOULD U AGREE 2 A REALITY SERIES.

      #2 KANDI IS A SWEET THICK BLACK SOUTHERN BELLE, NICE PERSONALITY, CAN COOK,LOVES SEX, AND HAS 35 MILLION $$$!

      I WOULD B GIVE N HER WHAT SHE WANTS,WHENEVER SHE WANTS, N HOWEVER SHES WANTS IT, AS LONG AS I CAN KEEP IT UP! (WHAT RED BLOODED BLACK STRAIGHT MALE WOULD NOT?)

      AND SHE GIVES NICE PRESENTS. (REMEMBER THE CAR SHE GAVE TODD, WHO DID NOT ACT APPRECIATIVE)

      NEWSFLASH, N CASE U DID NOT NO: TODD IZ ON THE DL/OR A OUT N OUT FAGGOT.

      REAL TALK.

      • Seriously? she’s just every other ATL chick with surgery, weave, an illegitimate chid, crazy mom and a body count full of industry peeps and dope boys. Granted she has money and a business accumen but that’s not necessarily qualities a man looks for to counter ratchetness. He may not be into her or just going through something right now. And he’s not a concubine. Couples sex is a private matter unless you are a pornstar or prostitute where it is your business to broadcast.

        • Todd never wanted Kandi in the first place. Everybody in her circle (and anyone with eyes to see) saw that. He’s just there for the come up. Don’t know why folks are so shocked she’d put their lack of sex life on public display. This is a woman that has an X rated internet show talking about sex and a sex toy line. Catch a clue…she’s a freak. She’s probably getting off on telling people Todd won’t get her off.

          • There are plenty of well earning career women in Atlanta who are “dime-pieces” that are eager to keep a man just for the ceremony and a vacation photos. He could have chose a different woman. He liked her well enough to get aroused and please her to the point of marriage, unless he is a good actor or shes desperate, perhaps both. Something changed. Men go through things. Broadcasting their sex life was a no no. Not only is it ratchet she just gave an open invite to fuq her husband. My mom said dont ever brag or complain about you sex life especially to other women.

          • Hell Mama Joyce told her not to marry Todd now she has to play the hand that the dealer had dealt her.

      • it was all about the money anyway. he he seeing all kinda thots in that industry. Kandi is ok but not all that. if it wasn’t really love. After over 100 times of hitting that. I’ll be ready to move on to…. And that go for the beyonce’s too. It gotta be really be something about you for me to settle down with u. And it’s not the looks cause looks get old

      • I can agree w him bein on the DL…but I honestly think from the jump he never really cared for her as a girlfriend or wife…I think he’s more of an opportunist…and as much as I don’t care for her mother, I think she’s dead on about him…

      • Funny… I told my mom what todd said and she mentioned he might be gay. And todd might not really be attracted to her like that. To say she aint no rihanna was Cold! Mamma Joyce might have been right all along lol Sips Tea…… Todd dont act or look luke he in love with kandi no way! Sad…

        • I agree. He seems distant in that relationship. But hell, i don’t know how much I would be interested in a relationship with someone who lets their mom cuss out and disrespect my mom.

      • I’d walk behind her with the jammy in Khandi all day if that was what that chocolate cutie wanted. Todd is a jerk. Once a week?! SHEEEET!

  2. This marriage is in trouble. They are newly weds and only having sex once a week! Then his response about her not being rihanna. Todd should not have married a woman that didn’t turn him on.

    • This Todd guy just as Andrea Kelly’s husband has that male Goldigger-ish look about them and whomever doesn’t see this is naive.

  3. Todd deserves a Nobel Peace Prize for dealing with mama joyce, mini mama joyce (riley), and Kandi defending her mom’s bs. I feel bad for Todd daughter for putting up with mini mama joyce. Then on top of that his mom pass, the ONLY lady to truly have his back.

  4. And the man just lost his only surviving parent and she’s worrying about getting dicked down. Smh

  5. we all know Kandi is damn slut. She went on national tv talking about putting sugar on p*ssy she’s nasty as f*ck

    that marriage won’t last. when You f*ck/take Someone else’s husband/wife you know that relationship is curse
    Todd was already married when He got with Her

    plus kandi’s over zealous Mother is f*cking with kandi’s emotions

    what about Her dead ex boyfriend A.J??

    she rose to fame pretty damn quick when he died??

    • She did? I thought her greatest fame came from her work with Excape and writing No Scrubs for TLC and Bill Bills Bills for DC. What new fame came after AJ was killed?

      • @zendaya

        listen honey don’t start shyt!, before kandi got on the show she wasn’t well known! once she did RHOA she was well known.

        as for her ex she probably used his death for sympathy. like most celebs do!!

        • Miss baylis, not trying 2 start any shit,.but kandi was famous & well known waaay B4 the real housewives…Also,.if u.don’tind me asking,.who was.Todd married 2 B4 Kandi?

          • @betchuwontstep

            singers and songwriters ain’t in same league. songwriters aren’t well know as singers
            Kandi might of been famous before housewives but when the band split

            kandi wasn’t doing no limelight chit. plus kandi wasn’t famous in white homes
            white people weren’t rocking to her chit like there now because of houswives

            she was f*cking todd when he was married to someone else!!!!

            • So….A black artist, who career stems back decades, are only considered 2 be well known, once white people know who u are….?? Ok….Also, who was Todd married 2 B4 Kandi?

            • @betchuwontstep

              research todd’s ex for yourself!!

              the rhoa helped kandi’s careers you know it and i know it, she may be songwriter but if it wasn’t for
              the rhoa kandi wouldn’t be as big as she is today if it wasn’t for rhoa!!!

              kandi was a nobody she had to introduce herself in season 2 because people didn’t know
              who she was!!

            • I’m with u Miss Baylis all the way! some people just don’t have that third eye.

            • AS AN ARTIST, lemme school you. THE MONEY is NOT in the singing…Its in writing and publishing. Not a fan of Kandi but her smartest move was to redirect to writing and publishing, which speaks to her polished business acumen.

        • Xscape wasn’t well known? Are you black? My bad you was busy f..king your husband, every second, every minute.

      • todd was married when he got with kandi!! like most female celeb who flaunt their cash to keep a man
        kandi should of closed her legs. you don’t f*ck a married men point blank period

        now the dumb toothy bytch married him, knowing fully well he will cheat on her like he did to his ex wife with her!!

        many female celeb steal married man away from their wife’s it’s common. men are in love with the money
        not the women

        kandi ain’t all that she smiles like a Cheshire cat

  6. She needs to break out some of her “Bedroom Kandi” and get used to it, because that’s married life for many. Either that, or get out of the marriage if once a week is a deal breaker.

    The fact he said she wasn’t Rih was insulting. So she needs to be younger, lighter, thinner and more of a freak to get him to sex her every night?

    • I don’t think he meant it in comparison to youth & beauty. Rihanna has a high sexual appetite a la the image she projects. He wasnt insulting her, he was saying in so many words “slow your roll with always being so thirsty to have sex….you ain’t Rhianna”. It takes more than just a horny feeling for some…for some it is a mental thing & being overly aggressive can be a turn off… Just my two cents. Thank you

      • Yeah you’re so right! I’m sure Rhi have a lot of mental stimulation going on. Oh, don’t forget the strippers at the clubs that men attend on the regular. I’m so sure they’re not horny but looking for that mental thing you speak of;)

  7. O he is an ignorant little cuss. He never wanted Kandi regardless of what happened with thier mothers. He didn’t want to sign the prenup so he kicked and screamed about that all the while claiming he don’t want her money..stalling and making excuses not to have a baby.this is not the first public insult he gave her about not wanting to sleep with her. Kandi get a clue and get ridd of that little prick.

  8. Never liked him from the start…little weasel…can’t hide that ish forever…take a look at the real Todd and stay tuned..he’s just getting started.

  9. It seemed to me he disservice her outright with that Rhianna comment. It’s like he’s saying she not attractive enough to get it nightly and thats insulting. I get the impression he’s not that much into her. I feel sorry for her because I think she really wants to be a wife. But I have a feeling her marriage isn’t going to last. Hopefully she has an ironclad prenup.

    • I thought he was referring to Rihanna’s youth and hypersex drive fok like a rabbit. Anyone who answers that they wanted a “nice trimmed dick” for Christmas during a magazine interview needs Jesus and celibacy soonest. Rhianna is synonymous for Sex. I dont think he meant that Kandi was not turning him on, but I am speculating.

      • I think he meant she ain’t light skinned and light eyed. Dudes don’t go deep like that, he just thinks Rhi is hot and if he had her he’d be doing her. Notice he mentioned a man Kan would find attractive and he mentioned a woman he finds attractive. Someone totally unlike his wife. Very insulting.

        • I see. but Rhi isn’t attractive in a pretty way, shes alluring and sexy with huge forehead (she literally looks like Frankeberry when wearing the pink wig). She is not the prototypical light skinned chick with fine features and hair that can pass the “pool test” as my shallow male friends say. Shes lucky she doesnt have that fat girl gene as she looks great in anything. still think he was talking her sex appeal, if not what an immature jerk. Even if your woman looks like a truck you are suppose to make them feel gorgeous. Ive heard that one can date/marry a person they are not physically attracted to, supposedly some emotional/spiritual/personality connection but I am too visual and a planner. My parents would tease their grandchildren if they came out cocked eyed and shyt,

  10. todd just lost his mother for pete sake. when people lose their loved ones sex is the least on their minds!
    kandi should just respect that!! and shut up!!

    when are women getting understand stop putting out your dirty laundry out in public!!!
    many z lister talk about their sex lives. to score more rates for their failing realty tv

    • Didn’t YOUR ass say on top of this very thread that you & yours are f*cking ALL the damn time Miss B? And since you’re so fond of exacting standards & shit, what happened to Mrs?

        • Bitch you a troll ,your husband is Hsk you drunk slut …. You say the same bullshit under different handles Tippie give it whore your life is boring and you a wack lame writer!

  11. The only reason a person complains about bedroom activity to a person or people other than the person they are having sex with is because they are setting the stage. When or if they get caught out there cheating it will be because “they only have sex with their spouse once a week”. People will think back to this article and many will say they don’t blame her.

  12. LoL these comments…yall are going in too deep for no reason….which tells me u hits watch this toxic crap and believe the faux story lines they plant to keep folk watching.

  13. No you shut up! And pay attention…he said it himself..he would be intrested in sex but she ain’t Rhianna.

  14. You dont have to watch the show to know who these people are..they’re all over the place..how do you know its toxic, are you watching it.

  15. He is airing his dirty laundry to..he is on the show because he wants to be. He was on it before they got married and then signed off for their spin off.

  16. It’s very simple… He is not attracted to Kandi. He has made it known that he is physically attracted to Porscha. On Kandi Koated Nights, he made up that scenario about wanting Kandi to kiss Claudia… Claudia knows he’s attracted to her, also. Kandi just isn’t his type. He married her for her money.

  17. Being intimate with your wife after a loved dies doesn’t have to be about getting your rocks off if thats whats being implied. If you wre brought up properly you would understand that. So there is nothing wrong if they were to have make love to even though he is grieving.

  18. We are all adults so talking about sex dosent bother me…how much I would talk about personaly is up to me…some people could use the advice when they talk about sex. If they put out a sex tape then that would be out of line.

  19. @Anonymous

    Todd just lost his mother, he doesn’t really wanna bang kandi out right now
    if this was the other way round kandi probably wouldn’t wanna f*ck! neither

    women have been known to cheat on their boyfriend/husband while their grieving. because some women are selfish i.e kandi

    frankly she should be grateful she’s getting some dick!!

          • Ms bogus you are so f*cking Capt. obvious… We know under other handles youove you some white Rick you drunk Doug bitch … Now you in here acting like you got a man you f*ck other women’s men you dizzy bitch , we know it’s you choco / Tippie told you whore you not getting away with shit !

  20. Who cares if she wasnt popular with white folks..we know who she is and what she has done. That season when she joined housewives peeked my intrest to watch the show because I wanted to se what she was up to lately. Didn’t even realize she wrote so much music for alot of celebrities..so even though she was behind the scenes she was still relevant and popular with the people that count. The ones paying her for her work.

  21. What the hell are you talking are you talking about woman being known for cheating on their husbands while their grieving…and dont even bother to respond.

  22. Run Kandi, Run!!! His response was a dealbreaker. I told a boyfriend once that I was gonna find someone who would appreciate me. He responded that I should go find him then. When I broke up with him, I reminded him of those words and informed him that our relationship died on that day. I found his replacement quick.

  23. he’s just not that into you, Kandi. It could have something to do with your mother and that sour taste she put in his mouth by being extremely disrepsectful..or it could be your unrealistic demands that you put on the man…or maybe you’re just not as cute as you think you are LOL….OR maybe those pesky rumors of you sleeping with all of Atlanta has taken its toll on him.

    • Yes, Khloe A man can fall out of love trust me. I had the most beautiful fiance. Sexy we use to have sex all the time. Members of her family came to visit us, they ended up staying for months. It turned out they had nowhere to go and I thought by allowing them to stay it would show how much I love her. After a while I didn’t enjoy coming home. Nothing about it I liked. She wasn’t appealing to me and eventually I lost that physical attraction for her. I will admit I stepped outside the home to take care of those needs. I believe that’s what Todd is going through. She should have checked her mom. family members can F your relationship up.

  24. this is why women shouldnt chase down men. Let them chase you..they’ll only chase you becuase they want you.

    • They”ll chase you for some head or good p*ssy , not sacrifice your mom for success!

    • MISS K –

      SORRY MY DEAR, BUT DA GAME HAS CHANGED, BIG TIME.

      DUE 2 D ABUNDANCE OF FAGGOTS, FELONS, AND CRACKHEADS, REAL MEN, ESPECIALLY STRAIGHT BLACK MEN, R @ A PREMIUM DES DAYS.

      THERE R MORE WOMEN THEN MEN, (N DA ATL, I BELIEVE THE RATIO IZ 25 TO 1, 4 INSTANCE)

      SO WHILE U R WAITING FOR THEM 2 CHASE U, THERE R 15-24 THAT R CHASING HIM.

      GOTTA GET REALISTIC BOUT YOUR EXPECTATIONS N 2015.

      • 10:33 Me and on the same page again about that ratio men to women. But nobody don’t wanna believe us. U and I both know what time it is, especially in the South. The ratio of men to women is so short that if U blink one time, U definitely missed that chance of finding a good man. Single and heterosexual that is.

          • DR1 –

            READ U 100 @ ALL TIMZ.

            MAY TAKE A FEW YEARS 4 OTHERS 2 C, BUT WE KEEP ON TRY N.

            EACH 1 TEACH 1.

            GOD BLESS U N YOURS, SIS.

            • ^^^^DON’T NO BOUT DIS, BUT HERE R SOME CLEAR CLUES ON HOW 2 GET N KEEP A MAN, AKA “HOW 2 GET A MAN 2 PUT A RING ON IT”, BY ANON 11:41:

              ALL MEN (BLACK MEN IN PARTICULAR) ABSOLUTELY, POSITIVELY, LOVE THEIR MOTHER, THE VERY FIRST WOMAN N THEIR LIFE, FROM BIRTH….SO MEET THE MOTHER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, AND BECOME A STUDENT 2 HER TEACHER.

              APPLY DA 3F RULE, N DEALING WIT YOUR MAN:

              FEED EM LIKE HIS MOMMA DO, FUK HIM LIKE A PORN STAR, AND LET HIM WATCH FOOTBALL (SPORTS) N PEACE.

              …..AND PLEASE, PLEASE DON’T TALK 2 MUCH! (ESPECIALLY NAGGING)

              LET HIM GO OUT WIT DA BOYS WHEN HE WANTS 2. (DEY CLOWN HIM N CALL HIM HENPECKED WHEN U DON’T)

              I PROMISE U, BY FOLLOWING THE ABOVE LISTED RULES OF DA ROAD, YO MAN WILL B RUNNING HOME AFTER WORK/CLASS/WHEREVER, AND MAKE N IT RAIN ON U, INSTEAD OF THE STRIP CLUB!

              FUK SPEND N $$$$ ON STEVE HARVEYS BULLSHIT BOOKS.

              REAL TALK 4 GROWN FOLKS, FROM ANON 11:41, 4 FREE DA WAY IT SHOULD B!

    • Khloe- please think about teaching a clinic to these young ladies because your common sense is refreshing & necessary.

      Many young ones, male & female, are/were not taught how to date/court or carry themselves; most were just thrown to the wolves & had to learn “trial by fire”. Young ones & even us ‘long toothers’ are so confused & have/had little to no schooling/guidance in this area because sex is a taboo subject surrounded by the initial energy of guilt fear & shame in this society, so we fail to dialogue about it.

      Young ladies need to know they are the prize & young men need to be empowered to have self-respect & dignity & most of all to be of their word! Men are losing traction as providers/protectors & woman are losing traction as the caretakers & nurturers. This goes against natural/universal law; this is why most of us are having a hard time knowing how to truly behave in a relationship.

      This subject is more important than algebra because it shapes personal as well as spiritual development & needs to taught in schools – dating & proper etiquette included. I wish you all safe & fabulous sex with the one(s) you love! Thank you & stay blessed.

  25. Let’s be honest Kandi looks like a bulldog and her mother isn’t a walk in the park. She should be happy Todd finds Rihanna attractive. I think Kandi is slowly turning Todd gay with her antics.

    • Todd been gay he didn’t need kandi… She setting him up for a hit, this roach looking bitch can’t keep no man … Her marriage is a joke that’s why moms knew it was for money not love, khandi love dick not men !

  26. Khandi you need to stay the f*ck out of other Rhoa bizness you got your own hood shit to wipe out your eye, joker looking bitch !

  27. Why is everyone dogging Kandi’s looks…Todd is no prize. Besides you dont have to be “good looking” to deserve love honour and respect. One would say that many people dissin Kandi are probably not the best looking and probably have average or just plain ugly parents themselves

    • I could not agree more. I think Kandi is cute as a button. She has a beautiful smile and her features are great. I would love to see some of these people who are shading her for being less than…I bet dollars to donuts they aren’t as attractive as she is.

  28. Did Kandi make Todd sign a pre nup?
    I read another article that he complained about Kandi wearing a bonnet on her head.

    On one hand a lot of men have a problem with those things so Kandi could invest in a nice silk pillowcase. However, Kandi was probably wearing that bonnet on her head before Todd became an official housewife so why is it a problem now?
    I think is just looking for any reason to try and get out of this thing.

  29. Kandi…dont have a baby for this fool…he will only turn around and try to sue you for full custody and child support…he probably never even thought of that..or he would have tried to get get her pregnant by now

  30. Yuck!!! All that sexing as a youngster caught up wit that azzzzma! Wowww. Seems lil mr #WatsHisName not b n pay enough. *smh* Well, Kandi coated nights, ya cooch done played out like the wop.

  31. Kandi needs to learn to stick up for her man because too many people on that show have been sacrificed on her behalf. Her mother Joyce needs to go somewhere because that buffoonery is not entertaining.

  32. Kandi slept with AJ after Tiny was done with him. Kandi is two faced one minute she’s team Kenya and the next minute she’s team Nene and Nene doesn’t like Kandi since day one. I think it’s time for Miss Andy to hand over those pink slips because we have had enough of Kandi and her mother.

  33. The only people that are giving Kandi a run for her money on rhoa is Kenya and Porsha. Somebody said Kandi is a thick black women but she could lose a few pounds. Don’t get thick confused with obese. If Todd would have hooked up with Porsha there would be no complaints.

    • OK, BUT DON’T GET HOOKED UP ON OTHER (READ: WHITE FOLKS) PEOPLEZ DEFINITION OF “OBESE” IS, AS IT CHANGES EVERY FEW YEARS. (THICK 1 YEAR, OBESE THE NEXT)

      KANDI, 2 ME, FITS THE SIZE N SHAPE, AS DO PORSHA, N PHAEDRA, OF THE TYPICAL FINE BLACK SOUTHERN BELLES OF ATLANTA.

      I FIND THEM FINE, THICK, N WIT DOEZ BIG, JUICY “PEACH” ASSES THAT U ONLY FIND N “CORN BREAD FED” LADIES OF DA SOUTH.

      & LET DA CHURCH SAY: AMEN.

      • Amen…..I use to be R in ATL and I know all about that. Jealous bitches always wanna hate on women who aren’t skinny and enjoy having curves. Jealous hiez talking shit while their man is f*cking thick girls behind their back….bwaahahahaha!

  34. Huh?…Kandi is far from obese…and if you think Porsha is the answer then why do you think he married her in the first place…what the hell are you talking about

  35. Kandi is one of the woman who pretty much stayed nuetral with all the ladies on that show. Nono is lucky she has anyone to talk to on that show because she tries to bully everyone. Kandi’s first season on the show Nono followed Kandi around I think it was Sheree’s party and Kandi was asking her to stop trying to start ish because it was not the time or place and that bully wouldn’t let up. She is not the trouble maker on the show.

  36. GET OFF TODD HE DOESN’T WANT TO SEX HER BECAUSE SHE HAS NO BACKBONE. SHE LET HER MOTHER AND HER EMPLOYEES TALK ABOUT THE MAN LIKE A DOG AND THEN SHE LET’S THAT FAT BEASTLY LOOKING DAUGHTER OF HERS HAVE ATTITUDE LIKE SHE’S CUTE AND SHE DOESN’T SAY A DAMN THING ABOUT IT,SHE’S JUST LIKE CYNTHIA. THR ONLY THING DIFFERENT IS THAT PETER HAS SENSE ENOUGH TO SUCK IT UP AND SPEND ALL THE MONEY WHILE TODD DOESN’T WANT TO BE PERCEIVED AS A MAN THAT LIVES OFF OF HIS WOMAN. WHEN SHE PROVES THAT SHE IS 100% DOWN WITH HIM THINGS WILL CHANGE FOR THE BETTER BUT IF SHE JUST KEEPS CRYING AND ACTING LIKE A CHILD HE WILL LEAVE HER.

    • *tehhehee*…i know right! this better not be u Todd…LOL! if it is, u got the right to vent it all out. and u’ve ultimately summed it up in a nutshell, neither Kandi’s crew…especially Ms. Don Juan sissy faggot-ass nor that fass’ass daughter likes u period. and let me not even start on Mama Joyce pertaining to how she hates u. all because you’re not a millionaire who can’t hand over her a few coins every now and again out of your “millionaire pockets”…if you were a millionaire like she wants u to be…Mama Joyce that is. man just leave the marriage. it’ll be okay. divorce was out into place for a reason.

  37. Dear Kandi,
    As a fellow Taurean I understand your heart and the need to be secure and in love..however, I know you are practical. Stop letting love blind you. Girl he don’t want you. That’s it. You haven’t been married long, and you only having sex once per week? He’s not into you like that girl. Stop hunting down love and let it just come to you. Stop ignoring those red flags and get rid of him…he’s thirsty and short..not man enough for you. When you find your true love, he won’t be able to be away from you, and he will be everything you need and want.

    • @KLW , U are a Taurean too? So am I! I definitely can relate and understand exactly what you are saying. We Taureans want stability like a mofo. She might as well get that divorce and move on. As a Taurean we all about the physical pleasures. That’s why sex dominates us. I know exactly how Kandi feel. Gotta have the D! LOL!

      • indeed i am, and yes security is a definite requirement..if i’m not feeling secure than there’s really no point in going on..oh and i’m all kinds of jealous!

  38. Well maybe she should listen to him and remove the bonnet. But in all truth they are not equally yoked. Kandi’s daughter acts like she is too good, Kandi moved his daughter in maybe too soon. Todd had to deal with too much drama before the wedding which probably left a bad taste in his mouth. I hope they work it out for her sake but I think he has already left the marriage.

  39. He wallowed like a pig in all that mess up until he walked down the aisle. He didnt have to marry her if that was such an issue for him. His problem is that he dosent know how to gamble because he thought all this ish that he puts up with would have paid off already. He was willing to put up with the sh*t slinging until he got a look at the terms of that prenup lol…by then he was so far in, if he backed out then people he knew he would deffinately look like opportunist that he is. Lol…and like the last comment..he is to stupid and have enough patience like Peter and spend all that money during the marriage…lmao

    • I don’t know if he wallowed in it I honestly saw a serious effort on his part to make peace with everyone concerned but the females in Kandi’s family don’t know how to let a man be a MAN. Not to mention they are both polar opposites one is from the city and the other is from the country – it was a lot of forces against them.

  40. Wow…
    So many of you have made such great points…
    I do believe Kandi is “talking” so much, because she is setting the preamble for a divorce. She wants out.
    Todd is an opportunist…and he is not into Kandi. Kandi knew this, but she thought she could control him. Now that she sees she does not have a paid concubine, she is looking for the fastest route outta there.
    So many games people play… It will all be over soon…

  41. He she have shook his tooty fruity and Kandi would have made it rain all day and all night..lol

  42. He should have shook his tooty fruity and Kandi would have made it rain all day and all night..lol

  43. kandi…try sticking yours finger in his asshole while kissing him. I bet his thing will grow like a rocket. You might cut to cut your nails though, first.

  44. my thing is this – if you, the women, gotta ALWAYS initiate the mood for sex in the relationship – it’s a 50% chance that your man is not sexually attracted to you at all….like seriously. come on now Kandi. and i love both of them so much as good people because they’re both kind, nice, cool-as-ice people at heart, but i truly believe that Todd really isn’t attracted to Kandi on that level, inspite of the fact that they’re married. i also think that he is only attracted to Kandi on a business level only, not on a sexual level. and if he is having sex with her, after she being the one to initiate, he is forcing himself to sex her. this is just my assessment of them. good luck yall with your still-brand-new marriage tho. damn i like them both. hope they will be alright. try the counseling, but that is not worthy of counseling…that’s just Todd not sexually attracted to her, let along she may not even be his type of women. just saying. o well.

  45. what he meant by that “you aint Rihanna” comment…(and God-forbid why he referenced that sleezy, skanky-ass trash is beyond me) is because he trying to say to Kandi, on the sly and insulting, is that she is no prize like Rihanna(UGHHH), and that she aint as skinny and lite(his supposedly opinion about what he fines attractive to sex/f*ck), and that Kandi should be happy that he is giving her that much sex – once a week by coercing – and close her mouth. leave this lil nigga Kandi, because all he wants is your money, but acting like he doesnt. your whole entire crew sees that..and let me not even bring Momma Joyce into the mix on how she feels about him. leave his lil drawf ass. it will be okay girl.

    • WHAT DA LIL TODDLER DOES NOT REALIZE IZ RHI-RHI DOES NOT WANT HIM, AND IZ 2 BUSY BE N A N***A FUCK TOY 4 DA RICH WITE BOYZ.

      WHEN SHE IZ ALL USED UP, THEN SHE WILL COME BACK BLACK.

      BET.

  46. Kandinsky, I don’t think this man want none of that booty. You should bring a light skin man home and let him smash you in front of Todd. Show him how long and strong dem light and bright boys work! Get one of them Joe burden types to knock the bottom out of your p*ssy, girl!

  47. If you think Toddler made an honest effort to get along..its not because he wanted a big happy family..it just makes it easier when your trying to get into someones pockets. Anyone doing the devils work hates to be called out by those who see right through them. No matter how hard he tried..that woman knew his number and he couldnt stand it. So again..if he was so put off by Kandi and her mother he would not have married her. He stuck around hoping for a big payoff. He probably thought he could use this mess as grounds for a divorce…but then came the prenup…good chess move on Kandi’s part…look how he treats her now…you can imagine how much worse it would be if he had any leverage.

    • but make no mistake tho regarding Kandi…she aint no punk by a long shot. when it boils down to it – i truly believe that she’ll be the one to ask for the divorce first before he will – as per that very last episode when she had the convo with her best friend slash Personal Ass’t Carmon. because she’s the one worth WAY more than his lil ass and worth WAY more than any of them hos on that RHOA show. she’s worth $35M or more. so that lil midget basically is lingering around and ultimately or wishing that she would ask for the divorce, and if she never doesnt ask for it, it is still cool with him because he wants her money.

  48. don’t forget Todd was f*cking Kandi’s best friend Carmen! just before the wedding

    if you watched the wedding special, Todd was yelling at Carmen alot on the show

    just like a lovers tiff

    • women shouldn’t be recommending their man’s dick to their friends!!!
      because these so called friends will jump on the dick like a trampoline. Kandi should of just kept
      her mouth shut about her sexing issue

      Carmen was f*cking Todd on the low. that’s why mama Joyce was so mean to Carmen!!

      • Baylis I got one for you. Karmen wad f*cking Todd in Kandi’s house! Mama Joyce call her out on that too.

        • @DaRadiant1

          damn!! and kandi still married him!! and kandi is still best friend with kar

        • 8:47 Mama Joyce said it on the show. After Mandi got that new house, Karmen would stay at Kandi’s house while Kandi was doing her play on the road. Todd would also was living there as well.

        • We know Karmen is her assistant, but how the way how the situation presented itself, and not to mentioned look at how Karmen was acting towards Mama Joyce when she called Karmen out. And if that ain’t enough, , remembered when Kandi was trying on wedding dresses and Karmen was there? Mama Joyce and her sisters was like why is Karmen was there? Those three ladies gave Kandi their honest opinion how they felt on why Kandi shouldn’t marry Todd. Now in the South, if U got a bunch of elderly women in your family can tell you what a person is all about by just watching you and how you or interact with a person, U damn right they are gonna say what on how they feel about that person. They do not want to see you get hurt. And that is why Mama Joyce was drilling into Kandi head about Todd. Mind you it was Phaedra that introduced Todd to Kandi. Now knowing what Mama Joyce know, Phaedra shouldn’t introduced Todd yo Kandi knowning she needed to sweep around her own door.

  49. Kandi wants to FUCK from sun up to sun down, EVERYDAY. Todd is probably tired of Kandi’s puss.

  50. Todd was just a desperate as Kandi, he couldn’t just be behind the scene working he had to move that big troll head to the front of the screen. But nobody explained to him money do not make you love a person and new toys get old. Well I guess it took his moms death to realize money can’t bring who I really want to impress back. Bye Kandi

  51. He did not express any attraction to Kandi from the beginning and her buying him didn’t make it better, just kept him a little longer. Now he has somewhat of a name he’s going to run like the wind. Bye girl!

  52. i hate that this like “mama joyce was right and thats why kandi should listen to her instead of living her own life” mama joyce is abusive period, she wasnt protecting kandi she was protecting that money because shes on the payroll she doesnt love kandi she tries to RUN kandi, and I think its a turn off to any man to have the mother in law be in the middle of everything, they got married in the midst of turmoil and that is also a mood killer, and lastly there is nothing wrong with being a freak lots of people are freaks that’s why we have a thriving sex entertainment industry and kandi was smart to invest her money in it since there is a huge market for it, its that broadway play she shouldn’t have invested in

  53. If his mother in law to be was such a turn off to him and the reason their marriage is the was it is.. HE would not have married Kandi in the first place. And dont sit up here and tell me that this woman does not love her daughter…thats just ignorant. She took care of her children and bought Kandi to a point in life where Kandi could become as successful as she is…and Kandi will tell you that. And you daam straight her mother will protect her daughters intrests including all that money. Its only natural for Kandi to take care of her mother and would you prefer her mother not to accept any..or do think Kandi should give it away to everyone else. She loved her daughter before her daughter had any money..any fool can see that. Her mother may rub you the wrong way..but dont ever implythat this woman dont love her child.

    • You cannot tell a grown woman what to do period, thats kandis life, and if mama Joyce loved her daughter she would take a step back and let het make her make her own decisions good or bad, but i agree that todd shouldnt have married into into all that drama, and he might be looking for a comeup but Kandi has to see that not her mama

  54. As far a that play is concerned…Kandi tried to help him make his broke ass some money. And now he’s all pissy because it did’nt work out…serves him right. Kandi is more concerned about the cast being out of a job and all he is concerned about is being out of pocket.

  55. O so you know I was talking to you…you fool..lol..toilet paper gyal..you amused me today..Im done with this page now…so go ahead and talk to yourself…bye..

    • You are way off. I doubt that you’ll believe me, but you are. I just wish I could understand WHY you think that???

    • Christa don’t post here no more since she was banned. She over at Data Lounge now.

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